Read and listen carefully. What does the phrase "We live together like brothers and sisters" mean? Don't think like a criminal. (But be yourself, be educated.)

Today, there's an interesting phrase: "We live together like brothers and sisters." If someone uses this phrase with you often, you should be wary of them!! Don't fall for their tricks, don't join their group. If you realize they're acting this way, quickly distance yourself. It will damage your reputation; make you seem untrustworthy and unreliable. You should know this; it's very important. There are many criminal systems in Thailand, and Thailand shouldn't have them anymore. This isn't a joke or a test of courage. They will bring you down and you will never prosper; you will ultimately be defeated. I myself was the same. Before, I couldn't see through them; I thought they were genuine locals, but in reality, they had a criminal mindset.

The phrase "We live together like brothers and sisters," in the context of criminal language or slang in the gray areas, is often used to build trust. However, in reality, it often has a hidden meaning different from typical family relationships. Here's an explanation:

‘Emphasis on loyalty without promises:’ This signifies mutual care without the need for binding documents or laws, emphasizing the sincerity and heart of the group members.

‘Governance based on seniority:’ The term “older brother of the thieves” refers to those considered leaders or those with higher authority, where subordinates, or “younger siblings” in the thieves' context, must respect and strictly obey their orders.

‘Sharing the same fate (sharing the same destiny):’ This means that profits are shared, but in times of trouble or arrest, there must be no “blame” or betrayal to protect the group's interests.

‘Illegible implication of violence:’ In some cases, the phrase “living together like brothers and sisters” in the workplace or in questionable groups can be used as an excuse for violations of rights or harsh punishments, ostensibly as a form of “discipline” similar to that of radical families.

Commonly used terms:

>Sworn oath: An oath of loyalty to one another until death.

>Bloodline: Even if from different parents, joining the group means being considered family and requiring protection.

>Severing ties with a sibling: Expulsion from a group or severing ties after betrayal or violation of group rules.

Furthermore, the term "brotherly/sisterly relationship" in the context of crime is often used to create a seemingly warm system of relationships that actually harbors control and exploitation.

Comparing the characteristics of a "thief" to a "graduated person" (in the sense of maturity and morality), there are clear differences:

1. Loyalty vs. Principles

Thief characteristics: Often use the term "brotherly/sisterly" to create a sense of obligation or emotional bond, making subordinates feel indebted and unable to refuse orders, even if they are illegal or immoral. Personal loyalty often overrides righteousness. In contrast, educated people: "Uphold principles and reason," and in a positive sense, a brotherly/sisterly relationship involves supporting growth, but within the framework of rules and justice. There's no coercion to commit wrongdoing to prove sincerity. ✌🏻✌🏻

2. Problem Solving and Power (Power vs. Dialogue)

Characteristics of a thief: They use hierarchical power structures disguised as brotherhood. Seniors order juniors to do what they want. If problems arise, they resort to violence or intimidation (both direct and indirect) to resolve them. Difference from educated people: They use dialogue and listening, respecting each other as equal human beings. They don't use the "senior" status to suppress the opinions of "juniors."

3. Self-Interest vs. Mutual Growth

Characteristics of a thief: They often form groups for mutual benefit in illicit ways, where the "leader" always benefits the most, and the "subordinates" bear the risk. Difference from educated people: They emphasize mutual growth and transparency. A brotherly relationship is about sharing knowledge and opportunities, not sharing the risk of wrongdoing.

***In short☝🏻

The "brotherly" relationship of a thief is "building a cage of feelings" to exploit loyalty. The brotherly relationship of an educated person is... "Building a supportive network" based on integrity.

Are you dealing with situations or individuals who fit this description in your work or personal life?

If you encounter someone like this who constantly uses terms like "brothers and sisters" and "our rules," avoid them and don't be swayed by their actions. There's no honor among thieves. They are always greedy and never satisfied.